The Discipline Of Looking Sharp (Even When You Don't Feel Like It)

‘Don’t judge a book by its cover’, is a common saying that goes around, but we as human beings always judge books by their cover because thats whats presented to us. We have to judge things by the way they look because then we can get a better understand of what we are dealing with. So we have to make sure we are always looking sharp even when we don’t really feel like it… 

Its A Discipline 

Its easy to look good when you feel good. When life’s throwing you aces, it’s easy to show up and show out… Then comes the days when we don’t really feel that great and we let things slide. The days when you forget to get your haircut, put on a clean outfit, shine your shoes and walk with absolute confidence! Not because it’s easy but because it’s who you have decided to be that day! This is where true vision and focus lies…

Your Appearance Affects Your Mind 

How you look affects how you feel and how you feel affects all your success in life! You don’t do it because you want to, you do it because thats what you’re supposed to do. You’re organised, suited up, smell good, hair fresh, cars clean! Its not faked confidence its real because you are who you say you are. You’re no longer this unorganised messy erratic individual who cant think straight. 

‘Ill Do It Tomorrow’

Don’t be that guy or girl who adopts the “ill do it tomorrow” or “ill do it when i feel like it” mindset. Your instantly gonna loose. 

Too many people in today’s world walk around with this mindset and you my friend are trying not to imitate them! Everybody wanna do it when they are ‘feeling good’ but never when the chips are down. This kind of attitude is probably why we have a generation of people addicted to ‘smart’ phones and not a generation of winners…

The Standards You Set

Some people have busy and chaotic lives and thats okay, but just as you put gas in your car, it would be wise to gas yourself up before you go out! So to speak!! It doesn’t always have to be about money. You don’t always need designer clothes, clothes from cheap store would work equally as well. You be surprised at how far one of the cheaper suits will get you.. 👔 

Being Clean 

Your clothes are washed. You have sprayed cologne. Your hair is neat and tidy, nails trimmed. These are all the cornerstones of discipline. You cannot expect to have healthy relationships with people if you ain’t smell nice. People love nice smells and cleanliness not some hot shot with bad breath. 

Being Intentional 

Nothing worse than someone who is always late and messy. Especially when your shit is together! When you make a time, you stick to it! This is how you gain the trust from people and from yourself.

Paying Attention To Detail 

Remembering names or respecting local travel customs when go out and about in the world will go a very long way. Being so self absorbed you forget the little details may lead to your demise. So it’s very important that you take the time to slow down and give your brain enough time to think. 

Respect Yourself Enough To Show Up Properly 

Do yourself the honour and make sure you’re ready before heading out, no one is cool enough to be rocking up to an event a complete mess. So do yourself the honour and be well dressed and of course well prepared. 

Even On Those Rainy Days 

Somedays you really just don’t feel like it, but life works in mysterious ways. Those lazy days are usually the days when you bump into someone important. Being disciplined enough that you’re always ready to go is the key to success. 🔑 Building a strong foundation will pay dividends down the road…

A Quick Routine That Changes Everything

You don’t need a 45 – step grooming routine. You just need a few non negotiables. Simple habits that keep you looking sharp even on low energy days! Here’s some basic standards to follow:

1. Clean Yourself Up

Shower properly.

Wash your face.

Brush your teeth.

Use deodorant.

Sounds obvious but most people let the basic things slip when life gets messy. Discipline starts with maintenance! 

2. Wear Clothes That Fit Properly

You don’t need designer brands. A clean black shirt that fits well will look equally as good as expensive clothes…

Focus on:

• Clean shoes
• Coordinated colours
• Proper fit
• Simple combinations

Sharp doesn’t always have to mean flashy…

3. Fix Your Posture

Most people instantly look more confident by simply standing up properly with their chest out, shoulders relaxed and head level. The body speaks before you do. 

4. Stay Physically Active

Training changes your energy. Even a walk. A gym session. Surf or Muay Thai session can completely reset yourself, movement is what sharpens the mind.

5. Keep Your Environment Clean

Your room. Car. Workspace or whatever it is, messy environments can create mental noise!  A clean environment will make it easier to think clearly and carry yourself properly.

6. Show Up Anyway

Arguably the most important one. Obviously there will be days when you feel very tired. Flat. Maybe even insecure and unmotivated but you have to do it anyway because standards mean nothing if they only exist on days you’re feeling good, thats where discipline is built! 

Closing Chapter 

Looking sharp isn’t always about self indulgence. It’s about self respect and self preservation. You can’t expect to get anywhere in life if you always look like an unorganised mess. Its time to do yourself a favour and start taking your appearance very seriously, almost as seriously as other people take it. So get those shirts and clippers out and get to work..!!! 🛠️